After settling in at Coboconk last
Sunday evening, we received word that my mom had passed away earlier
that day. It was not unexpected news as she had been failing for some
time. Yet somehow it was still a surprise.
After a phone call to Wendy (she's our
computer/internet service when we have none!), we found the rental
agencies within boat range were all sold out of cars for the next
day, Monday. Not sure when the funeral would be, not sure what to do.
Steve called Cheryl (they were still in Orillia). She said – give
her 30 minutes.
In that 30 minutes after taking
control, she made arrangements for family members to drive Cheryl's
car from their home near Midland to the Port of Orillia. Then Peter,
Cheryl and Lois all made the drive to Coboconk (about an hour) to
bring us their car. All of this between 10 and midnight or so. We've
not yet figured out how to repay their generosity of the use of their
car.
The trip back to Ohio and the next few
days were filled with conversations and celebrations of my mom's
life. It wasn't hard to recall the good times as there were so many.
In a way it was appropriate that we were traveling on the Trent when
she died as the times we spent up here every summer for many years - traveling together on our boats - as Wendy and Becky were growing up were
some of our fondest memories.
Seeing so many relatives and friends –
some of whom we hadn't seen for quite some time - made for a
bittersweet trip home. My niece's son described the gathering at
calling hours as “a party for Grandma”!
I think he was right. I figure she's
already played a good 36 holes by now …....